Hanukkah is eight nights long, which gives hosts something most holidays do not: a choice. You can host on the first night, a weekend night in the middle, or save the party for the eighth candle. A Hanukkah party invitation needs to make that choice clear, tell guests what to expect, whether that is a menorah lighting, latkes, dreidel games or a gift swap, and match the tone of the gathering, from a family dinner to a grown-up happy hour. Ready to pick a design? Browse our Hanukkah invitation templates.
This guide covers which night to host in 2026, what to include on the invitation, party ideas, wording you can copy for latke nights, family gatherings, friends, kids and happy hours, short text-message versions, festive design options, and when to send invites.

Hanukkah 2026 Dates and Choosing Your Night
Hanukkah 2026 begins at sundown on Friday, December 4, and ends at nightfall on Saturday, December 12, according to the Hebcal calendar. The first candle is lit on the evening of December 4 and the eighth on the evening of December 11.
A few things to consider when picking your night:
- The first night is a Friday. Many families light the menorah before Shabbat candles that evening. If some guests observe Shabbat, a Saturday night after nightfall or a Sunday party may be easier for them.
- Weekend nights are popular. Saturday, December 5 (second night) and Sunday, December 6 (third night) are natural party dates.
- Weeknights suit small gatherings. A Tuesday or Wednesday latke dinner for close friends is relaxed and less likely to clash with other plans.
- Name the night. "Join us for the fifth night of Hanukkah" tells guests how many candles to expect and adds a nice touch to the wording.
What to Include on a Hanukkah Party Invitation
Date, Night and Time
List the date, which night of Hanukkah it is, and the start time. If the menorah lighting is the centerpiece, put its time on the invitation, for example "Candle lighting at 5:30 p.m., dinner to follow." Sunset is early in December in much of the U.S., so check your local time.
What to Expect
One line about the plan helps guests prepare: a full dinner or just latkes and sufganiyot, dreidel games for kids, a family gift exchange or a cocktail evening. If you are inviting friends who have never been to a Hanukkah party, a short, welcoming note goes a long way.
What to Bring
Guests often ask. Options include "Bring your menorah if you would like to light it with us," "A small wrapped gift for the swap, $15 or less," or simply "Just bring yourselves."
Food Notes
If you keep kosher or your menu is dairy or meat, mention it so guests who bring food or gifts know what is appropriate. Ask guests to tell you directly about allergies or foods they avoid.
Hanukkah Party Ideas
- Latke Bar: Fry potato latkes and set out toppings: applesauce, sour cream, smoked salmon, chives and a few creative options like sweet potato or zucchini latkes.
- Group Menorah Lighting: Invite guests to bring their own menorahs and light them together by a window.
- Dreidel Tournament: Chocolate gelt, a bracket on a whiteboard and a silly trophy for the winner.
- Sufganiyot Station: Plain jelly doughnuts with bowls of powdered sugar, chocolate and sprinkles for decorating.
- Blue and Gold Table: Navy linens, gold candlesticks, white flowers and scattered gelt.
- Hanukkah Happy Hour: A grown-up evening with blue cocktails, wine and small bites like mini latkes.
Pick one or two of these rather than all six. A latke bar plus a group menorah lighting is plenty for a two-to-three-hour evening, and it gives the invitation one clear picture of the night to describe.
Latke Night Invitation Wording
A latke night is the most relaxed Hanukkah party: a hot pan, a long counter of toppings and people eating standing up. The invitation needs three things that a dinner invitation doesn't: a come-and-go window, who is doing the frying, and what to bring for the toppings bar.
Casual Latke Night
Oil's hot, come hungry.
Latke night at [Name]'s, Tuesday, December 8, from 6:30 p.m.
Candles at 7, then latkes until the potatoes run out.
Please RSVP by December 3.
Latkes, applesauce, sour cream and the great topping debate.
Saturday, December 5, 7–10 p.m. · [Address]
Come any time; we'll light the second candle at 7:15.
Latke-Off (Cooking Contest)
The first annual Latke-Off is on.
Bring your best batter (classic, sweet potato or something brave), a pan if you have one, and your trash talk.
Sunday, December 6, 4 p.m. · Judging at 6 · Winner keeps the golden spatula.
RSVP by November 30 so we know how many burners we need.
Bring-a-Topping Latke Bar
We'll fry, you top.
Bring one latke topping to share: smoked salmon, a homemade applesauce, za'atar yogurt, whatever your family swears by.
Wednesday, December 9, 6–9 p.m. · [Address]
Reply with what you're bringing so we don't end up with six jars of applesauce.
Latkes and Drinks (Adults)
Latkes & Latkes-Adjacent Drinks
A grown-up Hanukkah night, Friday, December 11, 8 p.m.
Eighth candle, crispy latkes, cold vodka and good company. 21+.
Say it in your video message: "Hi everyone! Latke night is Saturday the fifth at seven. We're frying, you bring a topping, and we'll light the candles together. Just RSVP on the invite so I know how many potatoes to grate."
Pair it with: Hanukkah Happy Hour, which puts a gold menorah next to two glasses of wine and plates of latkes under the line "Latkes, Laughter & Light." It reads like a latke night before guests even get to the details.
Family Hanukkah Gathering Wording
Family invitations do a different job. Grandparents want the exact time candles are lit, cousins want to know if kids are coming, and anyone driving in wants to know whether to stay for dinner. Name the night, the candle-lighting time and the house, and keep the tone warm rather than clever.
Warm Family Gathering
Eight nights, one family, lots of latkes.
Join the Cohens for the third night of Hanukkah
Sunday, December 6, 2026, at 5 p.m.
Candle lighting, dinner and dreidel to follow. RSVP by November 29.
At Grandma and Grandpa's
Bubbe and Zayde are lighting the first candle with the whole family.
Friday, December 4 · Arrive by [time]; we light Hanukkah candles at [time], just before Shabbat candles
[Address]
Bring your menorahs; the kids will lead the blessings.
Cousins and Extended Family
All the cousins, one table, eight candles.
Our family Hanukkah party is Sunday, December 6, from 3 to 7 p.m. at [Name]'s house.
Gift swap for the kids ($15 limit), latkes for everyone.
Let us know by November 29 how many of you are coming.
Interfaith or Blended Family
Our first Hanukkah together as a bigger family.
Join us for candle lighting and dinner on Saturday, December 5, at 6 p.m.
New to the traditions? Perfect. We'll explain the blessings, teach the dreidel rules and save you a latke.
Last Night of Hanukkah
All eight candles, all of us.
Celebrate the last night of Hanukkah with the family on Friday, December 11.
Hanukkah candles at [time], before Shabbat candles, then dinner.
Say it in your video message: record the grandparents or the kids saying the date and "we can't wait to light the candles with you." Families forward a familiar face much faster than a block of text.
Pair it with: Warmth & Wonder Hanukkah, a blue-and-white ceramic menorah with lit candles and soft white flowers. It is calm and traditional, the right tone for an invitation that grandparents will read closely.
On Friday, December 4 and Friday, December 11, Hanukkah candles are lit before Shabbat candles, so they go on earlier than on other nights. Look up Shabbat candle-lighting for your city and put the exact time on the invitation instead of [time]. For a seated family meal, our Hanukkah dinner invitations guide has menu notes and dinner wording.
More Hanukkah Party Wording
Friends and Latkes
Latkes, laughter and light!
Come celebrate Hanukkah with us on Saturday, December 5, 7 p.m.
Bring your menorah and your appetite.
Hanukkah Happy Hour
Let's get lit (the menorah, of course).
Hanukkah happy hour, Wednesday, December 9, 6:30 p.m.
Blue cocktails, mini latkes and good company.
Elegant Dinner
You are warmly invited to a Hanukkah dinner
on the eighth night of the festival of lights
Friday, December 11, 2026
Candle lighting before sundown, dinner to follow.
Kids' Hanukkah Party
Spin the dreidel, win the gelt!
Kids' Hanukkah party with crafts, doughnuts and games
Sunday, December 6, 2 to 4 p.m.
Parents welcome to stay for coffee.
Spin, win and eat some gelt!
Join Maya for a Hanukkah dreidel party
Sunday, December 6, 2026, 2 to 4 p.m.
Latkes, doughnuts and a dreidel tournament. Siblings welcome.
A closing line like "Chag Sameach" or "Happy Hanukkah" adds warmth to any of these.
Short Hanukkah Text Messages
These fit in one text bubble. Send them with your invitation link, or use them as the follow-up you send yourself a few days before.
- Hanukkah party at ours, Sat 12/5, 7 p.m.! Latkes, sufganiyot and dreidel. Bring a menorah if you like. RSVP via the link by 11/30.
- Hanukkah party at ours on Saturday, December 5, from 6 p.m. We light candles at 6:30. Invite and RSVP here: [link]
- Latke night, Tue 12/8, 6:30! We fry, you bring a topping. RSVP here: [link]
- Family candle lighting at Grandma's, Fri 12/4. Come early: candles go on before Shabbat. Time and details: [link]
- Third night = cousins night. Sun 12/6, 3–7 p.m. Kids' gift swap, $15 limit. RSVP: [link]
- Hanukkah happy hour Wed 12/9, 6:30. Mini latkes, blue cocktails. Tap Maybe if you're not sure yet: [link]
- Quick reminder: latkes tomorrow at 7! Haven't replied yet? RSVP here: [link]
- Small change: candles at 5:45 instead of 5:30 tonight. Same place, same latkes. See you soon!
Festive Hanukkah Video Invitation Designs
Hanukkah City Lights is a natural fit for an evening party. A lit menorah stands in front of a tall window overlooking a city at night, with a cozy sofa, candles and holiday treats in the foreground and "Hanukkah" written in gold script above. It feels like an apartment party with friends.
For a family or kids' party, Hanukkah Nights is bright and classic: blue dreidels, a stack of gold gelt and a glowing candle on a cream background framed in navy, with the line "Spin Into the Light." It is easy to read on a phone and feels festive without being formal.
More options: Hanukkah Happy Hour pairs a gold menorah with glasses of white wine and plates of latkes under the line "Latkes, Laughter & Light"; Shine Bright Hanukkah frames a single candle in a blue-and-white floral wreath; Celebrate the Glow is a minimal design with dreidels and a candle; and Light, Love, Together Hanukkah uses white doves above a gold menorah for a more elegant dinner.
Start in the TwistInvite app: pick a template, add your event details and your own photos, video or audio if you like, and hold to record a short voice message to greet guests personally. Share one link by text or in your family group chat, with the wording from above in the message. Your guests watch the invitation and answer Going, Can't make it or Maybe in their browser, no app or account needed, and you can check who is coming in the app before you start frying. Get the App.
Hosting Etiquette and Tips for Guests
The etiquette notes in this section are general advice; adjust them to your family, community and venue.
- Guests who do not celebrate Hanukkah. Mixed groups are common. A short line such as "Everyone is welcome; we will explain the candle lighting as we go" helps friends feel included rather than unsure about what to do.
- Gifts. If you are not exchanging gifts, say "No gifts, just your appetite." If you are doing a small swap, give a price limit so nobody overspends.
- Candles and kids. If guests bring their own menorahs, tell them where they will be lit, ideally a stable surface by a window, away from coats and decorations.
- Ending time. On a school night, an end time helps families with young children plan.
When to Send Hanukkah Party Invitations
Because Hanukkah 2026 starts early, on December 4, send invitations three to four weeks ahead, in early-to-mid November. That is also just before Thanksgiving on November 26, when many people make their December plans. Set the RSVP deadline about a week before your party so you know how many latkes to fry.
Use this schedule as a general guide for a 2026 party:
| When | Step |
|---|---|
| Early to mid November | Send invitations with the night, start time and candle-lighting time |
| About 1 week before | RSVP deadline; confirm headcount, allergies and who brings a menorah |
| 2–3 days before | Send a short text yourself with arrival time and parking |
| Day of | Text guests yourself if the candle-lighting time shifts |
If you are hosting more than one night, send one invitation per gathering so the replies for each night stay separate.
Before You Send
Read the invitation once as a first-time guest would: can they tell which night it is, when the candles are lit, what food to expect and whether to bring anything? If yes, the invitation is doing its job.
For more seasonal ideas, see our holiday party invitation planning guide, dinner party invitation wording and elegant cocktail party invitations guides, or browse Hanukkah, Christmas and New Year's Eve templates together on our holiday party invitations page.
Hanukkah Invitations by Occasion
This guide covers Hanukkah parties in general. If your gathering has a specific format, these guides go deeper:
- First night of Hanukkah invitations for Friday, December 4, when the first candle and Shabbat candles share one evening.
- Kids Hanukkah party invitations with pickup times, allergy lines and candle safety for parents.
- Hanukkah open house invitations for a come-and-go window with candle lighting in the middle.
- Hanukkah potluck invitations for assigning dishes and keeping dairy and meat straight.
- Virtual Hanukkah invitations for lighting candles together on a video call across time zones.
- Hanukkah dinner invitations and latke party invitations for sit-down dinners and frying nights.
Frequently Asked Questions
When is Hanukkah in 2026?
Hanukkah 2026 begins at sundown on Friday, December 4, and ends at nightfall on Saturday, December 12. The first candle is lit on December 4 and the eighth on December 11.
What should a Hanukkah party invitation include?
Include the date, which night of Hanukkah it is, the start time and candle-lighting time, the address, what to expect, what to bring if anything, food notes such as kosher or dairy, and an RSVP deadline.
Which night of Hanukkah is best for a party?
Any night works. In 2026, Saturday, December 5 and Sunday, December 6 are convenient weekend options. Because the first night is a Friday, guests who observe Shabbat may prefer a Saturday night or Sunday party.
What do you say on a Hanukkah invitation?
Start with a warm line such as "Latkes, laughter and light" or "Eight nights, one family," then add the night, date, time, address and RSVP details. Ending with "Happy Hanukkah" or "Chag Sameach" is a nice touch.
What should a latke party invitation say?
Give a come-and-go window, the candle-lighting time, whether you are frying or guests are cooking, and what to bring for the toppings bar. A playful first line such as "Oil's hot, come hungry" sets the tone.
When should I send Hanukkah party invitations for 2026?
Send them three to four weeks ahead, in early-to-mid November, and set the RSVP deadline about a week before the party.
Is it okay to invite friends who do not celebrate Hanukkah?
Yes. Many Hanukkah parties include friends of other backgrounds. A friendly line such as "Everyone is welcome, we will explain the candle lighting" helps guests feel at ease.
Should I mention gifts on a Hanukkah party invitation?
Only if it helps. Write "No gifts, please" if you are not exchanging, or give a price limit if you are doing a small swap.
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