When to Send Wedding Invitations: 6 to 8 Weeks Before, Plus the Full Timeline

Send wedding invitations 6 to 8 weeks before the wedding and set the RSVP deadline 3 to 4 weeks before. For a destination wedding or a holiday weekend, send them 8 to 12 weeks ahead. Save-the-dates go out earlier: about 6 to 8 months ahead, or 8 to 12 months for a destination wedding.

The tables below cover each type of wedding and event, followed by a worked 2027 example, the exceptions that change the timing, and messages you can send when an RSVP is late. For save-the-date designs and wording, see our wedding save-the-date ideas.

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Wedding Invitation Timeline by Type of Wedding

The RSVP deadline should come about a week before your caterer or venue needs the final headcount. Check that date in your contract and count back from it.

Timing for the Other Wedding Events

For wording, see our guides to welcome party invitations and reception-only invitation wording. There are also separate guides to rustic wedding invitations, church wedding invitation wording, and cocktail reception wedding invitations.

A Worked Example: A June 12, 2027 Wedding

Moving the wedding to Labor Day weekend (Saturday, September 4, 2027)? Send invitations between June 12 and July 10, and set the RSVP date for August 7.

Exceptions That Change the Timeline

• December weddings. Guests are booking holiday travel by October. Send save-the-dates in spring and invitations 10 to 12 weeks out. For a December 18, 2027 wedding, that's between September 25 and October 9.
• International guests. If anyone needs a passport or visa, send them a save-the-date or a personal message as soon as the date is set. Our destination wedding invitations guide covers what to include.
• Mailing paper invitations. Add about a week for postage within the US, and more for international mail. Digital invitations arrive instantly, so you can send them closer to the 6-week mark.
• A second round of guests. If you invite more people as others decline, send the second round no later than 4 to 5 weeks before the wedding, so it doesn't look last-minute.
• Hotel block deadlines. If the block is released 30 days out, your invitation needs to reach guests well before then.

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What to Say: Invitations, RSVP Asks and Follow-Ups

With the invitation link

• "Our wedding invitation is here! Please tap Going, Can't make it or Maybe on the invite by May 15."
• "It's official: June 12, 2027. Details and RSVP at the link."

Follow-ups you send yourself

• "Hi [Name]! We're finalizing numbers for the caterer this week. Can you let us know if you'll make it?"
• "Quick one: you picked Maybe on our invite. No pressure, but we need final numbers by Wednesday."
• "We'd love to know if you're coming! The RSVP link is below."

If something changes

• "Update: the ceremony now starts at 4:30 p.m., not 4. Everything else stays the same."
• "We've had to postpone our wedding. New date to come. Thank you for understanding."

More text examples are in how to send wedding invitations by text.

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Sending Invitations by Link with TwistInvite

1. Pick a template in the TwistInvite app, add your event details and, if you like, your own photos, video or a song.
2. Hold to record a short voice message (up to 15 seconds on the free plan).
3. Share the link by text or any messaging app on the date from your timeline.
4. Watch the replies come in. Guests open the link in their browser and answer Going, Can't make it or Maybe without an app or account. You can see who hasn't answered and message them yourself.

Get the TwistInvite app and set up your invitation before the send date.

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Common Mistakes

• Setting the RSVP date too close to the wedding, leaving no time to chase replies before the caterer's deadline.
• Sending invitations before the guest list is final. It's hard to take an invitation back.
• Skipping save-the-dates for a destination wedding. 10 weeks isn't enough time to book flights.
• Sending different waves too far apart, so the later guests notice.
• Forgetting the extra events. Welcome parties and brunches need their own timing.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is 4 weeks too late to send wedding invitations?

For most weddings, yes. Guests need time to plan and you need time to collect replies. Four weeks can work for a small local wedding or a short engagement, with an RSVP date about two weeks out.

When should the RSVP deadline be for a wedding?

Three to four weeks before the wedding, and about a week before your caterer needs the final headcount.

Do you send invitations earlier for a destination wedding?

Yes. Send save-the-dates 8 to 12 months ahead and invitations 10 to 12 weeks ahead, and set the RSVP date before any hotel block deadline.

Can you send wedding invitations too early?

Sending more than 3 months ahead for a local wedding means guests are more likely to forget. Use a save-the-date for the early notice instead.

What do you do if guests don't RSVP?

Send a short, friendly message a day or two after the deadline and ask for a yes or no by a specific date. A phone call works best for older relatives.

Are digital invitations sent on the same timeline as paper?

Mostly yes. Because there's no mailing time, you can send digital invitations a week later than paper ones.