A Valentine's party invitation should tell guests what kind of night it is (romantic dinner, friends' party, game night or anti-Valentine's), who is invited (couples, singles or everyone), and the date, time, place, dress code and RSVP date. Since February 14, 2027 falls on a Sunday, many hosts will pick Friday the 12th or Saturday the 13th. Below is wording for each kind of Valentine's party, plus details lines and text-message versions.
Use the wording below as the message you send with your invitation link or as the script for your 15-second voice message. Replace the brackets with your details. To build one in a few minutes, try the video invitation maker.
What to Include on a Valentine's Party Invitation
- The kind of party: couples' dinner, mixed friends' party, cocktail night, game night, singles' mixer or anti-Valentine's. Guests decide whether to bring a date based on this line.
- Who's invited: "couples", "bring a date or a friend", or "come solo, everyone's welcome". Be explicit; it prevents awkward questions.
- Date and time: February 14 falls on a Sunday in 2027, so many hosts will choose Friday the 12th or Saturday the 13th. Say the day of the week.
- Food and drinks: dinner, heavy appetizers, desserts only, BYOB.
- Dress code or color theme: "wear red or pink", "cocktail attire", "cozy sweaters".
- Gifts or activities: a $10 gift swap, a card-making table, a playlist request.
- RSVP date: about a week ahead, especially if you are booking a table or cooking.
Quick Picks: Headline Lines
| Tone | Headline | Best for |
|---|---|---|
| Romantic | "An evening of love, candlelight and good company" | Couples' dinner |
| Playful | "Love is in the air (and so is the cheese board)" | Friends' party |
| Elegant | "Join us for a Valentine's soirée" | Cocktail party |
| Inclusive | "Couples, singles, friends: all hearts welcome" | Mixed group |
| Cheeky | "Cupid's night off: an anti-Valentine's party" | Single friends |
Couples' Valentine's Dinner Party Wording
Please join us for a Valentine's dinner for two (times four)
Saturday, February 13 · 7 p.m. · [address]
Three courses, candlelight and a toast to the people we love.
Kindly reply by February 6.
Dinner, dessert and a little romance.
Bring your favorite person to our Valentine's table on Friday, February 12, at 7:30.
We'll handle dinner. You bring a bottle you love.
Friends' Valentine's Party Wording
All hearts welcome.
Valentine's party at ours, Saturday, February 13, 8 p.m.
Couples, singles and best friends invited. Wear something red or pink.
Snacks, sweets and a very romantic playlist provided.
Short version: Valentine's party Sat Feb 13, 8 p.m. Bring a date, a friend or just yourself. Pink drinks guaranteed.
Valentine's Cocktail or Wine Night Wording
Sip, swirl and fall in love (with the wine).
Valentine's wine night, Friday, February 12, 7 p.m.
Bring a bottle under $20 with a love-themed label. Best label wins.
Love potions served at 8.
A Valentine's cocktail party, Saturday, February 13. Cocktail attire, red encouraged.
Valentine's Game Night Wording
Couples' game night: may the best pair win.
Friday, February 12, 7:30 p.m. Trivia, card games and chocolate prizes.
Bring a snack to share and your competitive side.
How well do you know your partner? Find out at our Valentine's game night. Saturday, February 13, 8 p.m.
Anti-Valentine's and Singles Party Wording
Cupid called in sick.
Anti-Valentine's party, Saturday, February 13, 8 p.m.
Black dresses, bad-date stories and zero heart-shaped anything.
Singles, friends and anyone tired of roses:
Pizza, records and good company on February 14. No plus-ones required.
Office or Club Valentine's Wording
Sweet treats in the break room.
Valentine's dessert social, Friday, February 12, 3 p.m.
Bring a sweet to share if you like. Cards and candy provided.
Our club's Valentine's social: Thursday, February 11, 6 p.m., [venue]. Partners and friends welcome.
Details Lines: Gifts, Dress Code and Plus-Ones
- Gift swap: "Bring a wrapped gift under $15 for our heart-shaped white elephant."
- No gifts: "Your company is the only gift we need."
- Dress code: "Wear red, pink, or your most romantic sweater."
- Plus-ones: "Feel free to bring a date" or "This one's just for our little group."
- Kids: "Adults-only evening; see you without the little loves."
- Dietary: "Tell us about any allergies when you reply."
Hosting Notes for a Valentine's Party
A few extra lines can make the night easier for everyone. If you are cooking a set menu, ask about allergies and dietary needs on the invitation rather than the week before. If space is tight, give a firm guest count ("we have room for six couples"), so friends know a plus-one isn't automatic. For mixed groups, plan at least one activity that works without a partner, like a dessert bar, a playlist challenge or trivia with random teams, and mention it on the invite so single friends know they will not be the odd ones out.
Text-Message Versions
- "Valentine's dinner at ours Sat Feb 13 at 7? Bring your other half."
- "Galentine's or Valentine's, either way you're invited. Feb 13, 8 p.m."
- "Reminder: wear red tomorrow! Doors at 8."
- "We're at 10 guests. Room for one more pair if you know anyone."
When to Send Valentine's Party Invitations
| Party | Send the invite | RSVP by |
|---|---|---|
| Couples' dinner at home | 3 weeks ahead (around Jan 23) | 1 week before |
| Restaurant group booking | 4–5 weeks ahead | Before you confirm the table |
| Friends' or anti-Valentine's party | 2–3 weeks ahead | 5 days before |
| Office or club social | 2 weeks ahead | 3 days before |
Hosting a daytime gathering for your friends instead? See our Galentine's brunch invitation guide. Planning a bigger milestone for two? Our anniversary party invitations have more romantic designs.
How to Send It as a Video Invitation
- Open the Love Celebrations folder in TwistInvite, pick a design, and add the date, time, place and dress code. Add your own photos, video or audio if you like.
- Hold to record a 15-second voice message, for example: "Valentine's dinner, Saturday the thirteenth at seven. Wear red, bring your favorite person."
- Share the link by text or in the group chat, with your wording as the message.
- Track replies in the app. Guests open the invitation in their browser and answer Going, Can't make it or Maybe without downloading anything or creating an account. Email is optional.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What should a Valentine's party invitation say?
Say what kind of party it is, who is invited (couples, singles or everyone), the date, time and place, food and drinks, any dress code or gift swap, and an RSVP date.
What is a good Valentine's party theme for friends?
An all-hearts-welcome party with a red-and-pink dress code, a dessert bar or a game night works for couples and singles together. An anti-Valentine's night suits a group of single friends.
When should I send Valentine's party invitations?
About three weeks ahead for a dinner at home, four to five weeks for a restaurant booking, and two to three weeks for a casual party. Ask for replies about a week before.
How do I say whether guests can bring a date?
Be direct: "Feel free to bring a date" or "Couples' night: come as a pair". For mixed groups, "Couples, singles and best friends welcome" covers everyone.
Do guests need an app to RSVP?
No. The host creates the invitation in the TwistInvite app. Guests open the link in a browser and reply Going, Can't make it or Maybe without downloading anything or creating an account.
Create it in the TwistInvite app
Download free on iPhone or Android, then share one link with your guests.